
Our son London II was born on July 28, 2000. On July 30, 2000 he literally crashed & had to be stabilized and life flighted to UC Davis where he was hooked up to all kinds of wires & machines & IV meds. That was the day we were told he had a CHD called Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome or HLHS. We were given 3 options and his odds of living through them; Compassionate Care (take him home to die), a heart transplant (baby hearts are really hard to find) & if you can find one, the odds of him living through the surgery were 30%, and the last option was a series of at least 3 open heart surgeries with a 30% chance of making it through the first one. We decided that we just had to give him a chance at life, even after his own cardiologist told us that if this were his child he would take him home to die. We chose the 3 surgeries. London had his 1st surgery at just 5 days old. We spent the next 6 weeks in the NICU. We were not allowed to hold him for almost 2 weeks after his surgery. He finally went home where we stayed until his 2nd surgery at 7 months. He spent 5 days in the hospital for that one. After this surgery he had a few problems with collaterals (extra veins that grow from the heart to the lungs to try to compensate for low blood oxygen levels, these sound like they would be good, but they are bad for a heart child), so he had several heart caths and ended up having to have his 3rd surgery early. So he had his 3rd open heart surgery at 2 years of age, 1 week after he turned 2 in fact. And 1 week later, due to fluid & infection complications, he had his 4th open heart surgery. Because of these complications we spent 6 weeks in the hospital and once again I was not allowed to hold my baby for 2 weeks after his surgery. Thank god we have been fortunate enough to have not had any surgeries or hospitalizations in the last 7 1/2 years and he is now doing wonderful. However, his heart is not “fixed”. This is something he will have to deal with for the rest of his life, after all, he was born with only half a heart. No one knows what the future holds for these children, the oldest HLHS’ers are in their early 30′s, babies born with HLHS did not survive before that. So we don’t know how long he will live, we don’t know if he is going to outlive us, something that all parents look forward to and a lot of parents take for granted. As parents we don’t want to think about ever having to bury your child, but as HLHS parents most of us deal with this thought on a daily basis as it is a very real possibility. We certainly don’t want to think about it, but it can’t be helped, since we don’t have any idea what the future holds for these children. This has been just a glimpse into my life of being a parent to a child with HLHS. And even with knowing what I know now about this life, I would not trade him for the world, he is the most loving child any one could ever ask for.

CHD’s are real! Before London was born, I had heard of CHD’s, but from my experience, they were not that bad, the people I knew who had them were older, like my dad, and he did not seem to have problems that I knew of at that time and did not until he was older. My grandma had a CHD and her son (my uncle) was born with the same one, but my grandma lived to her 80′s and did not have any heart surgeries. It wasn’t until London that I realized that most defects are very serious and many are fatal without surgery, I also did not realize just how many people were affected by them, since I had only heard of the few in my family, none of our many friends had any. Now I know it is a very serious problem and we need more funding for research to be done on CHD’s and also we want to make everyone aware so that no parent feels alone in this world like London & I did when London was younger, we knew no one until he was a little older with HLHS. That is why Shannon & I founded the Hope for HLHS group shortly after we met, the group was created in 2002. Go to http://www.hopeforhlhs.com for more information on HLHS and a link to join our group if you are affected by HLHS.
1 IN 100 BABIES WILL BE BORN WITH A CHD THIS YEAR!
Congenital Heart Defects are the #1 birth defect.
This year approximately 4,000 babies will not live to see their first birthday because of Congenital Heart Defects.
Also, just look around at my friends and you will see the special CHD Tags I have made for their children, you will see a lot of tags and this is just a handful of all the people who are affected by CHD in some way in their life. Just to give you an idea of just how many people are affected by it. My Facebook profile is http://www.facebook.com/ramobley. Anyone affected by CHD’s or just wanting to help spread awareness or wanting to know more about them is welcome to add me as a friend, just make sure to add to the request why you want to be my friend.
My links:
London’s Website
Hope for HLHS
My Facebook Profile